Love advice desperately needed... help please?

my my my! I can feel your desperation, frustration and anguish. You are really troubled. My dear sister, i have been down that lane before. But to cut a long story short, Nature always takes its own course. What i mean is, like your guy's mum said, u both need some space. space to reflect on your past actions and decide whether u really must be together. It may just be the that is great and u think all is well or it may just be some small misunderstanding. More Often than not men act on impulse when hurt but realise late that they actually could have 4given their partner. he may also acting like that due to pressure from his friends. But with time, things will fall back in place. if he really wants u back, he will come for u. If not the signs will show. chasing afet him may just worsen the situation and show how desperate u are at the moment. it hurts but if the worst happens, move on and start life afresh. One piece of advice tho: take time b4 u start another serious relationship.